It's an incredibly long story, but to keep it as short as I can, whilst including relevant information... 8 year old ADHD son lifted a girl's skirt up ...

... at school, not the first time he's done this. Girl said he put a finger up her bum. Her parents informed the police, police questioned her, police told us that he couldn't possibly have done it cos she was fully dressed. Bottom line, can't accuse an 8 year old girl of lying, have to believe she was mistaken. Parents have told all the other parents that he DID do it. Headteacher advised me to keep him off school, can't guarantee his safety, would have to be in isolation if he returned, the other parents had told school they were worried their kids might harm my child out of anger. He's not been expelled, but has been off since 16th November. The work they have sent isn't appropriate for a child with ADHD (videos, no interaction). No eduction, awaiting new school. School issued a statement that there had been an allegation of child on child sexual assault and it was in the hands of other agencies to investigate. That, coupled with my son's absence, makes it look like he's guilty. Suffered a lot of fear and anxiety over the whole thing, scared of going out. Worried about my son's mental health if this isn't cleared up now, he has ADHD, low self esteem, worried this will affect him when he's a teenager and these kids are at same high school. I want school to issue a statement saying he didn't do it, but they said they can't due to confidentiality. Police said slander and libel from parents is a civil matter. I don't have physical proof of either. I will be writing to governors and ofsted. How likely is it that I can get school to inform the parents he didn't do it? Thank you x