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How many schools should I name on my son’s secondary transfer
Lambeth asks for three preferences - I have only one school’s name; can I write down only one ? Thank you very much
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Can La refuse to let you change school with ehcp
Refuse to consult with settings
Tina Hartill
01 Jul 2026
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EHCP section I failure by LA
My son has tried two mainstream schools both failed as he is adhd with autism traits. His final EHCP stated he is to return to the mainstream school he prev failed in. The school listed in the EHCP told the LA they can’t meet need, but a specialist school that we named during the EHCP process said they can meet need but the LA has ignored all this..
My son refuses to go back to mainstream education as he knows he’s over whelmed and gets in trouble. And, he has elements of PTSD to the point I can’t even get him to a meeting in the named school.
I am 3k in debt because I had to get a private assessment due to waiting lists, and the private psyc report has also been ignored by the LA in their decision making.
I have escalated to tribunal, however even if the local authority decide to change it to the school we requested - how long would this take? Can it be done immediately as I am concerned he will loose his place on hold for him at the specialist school who can meet need and it’s his chosen preferred school. We were told by the LA to visit other schools which we did and he fell in love with the one we requested. He is high level adhd and has lost trust in everything and everyone because of this, it has really damaged him mentally. This is his first EHCP since diagnosis. He hasn’t been in full time education since November 2025.
This is so stressful, I am also a 24/7 single mum to two teen sons, I am also battling MS and this is having a damaging impact on my health as well as my sons.
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We have just had our annual review and LA have granted EOTAS with Personal Budget in section J, They have included provision in Section F but no funding for it. What do I do?
Can I make them supply the provision on the plan where there is no funding attached to it?
Louisa Roots
12 Jun 2026
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Would I have grounds to appeal to SENDIST for daughter not passing kent test?
My daughter is about to transition to secondary in Sep 2026, she has a diagnosis of autism. Schooling has been on off with part time time -tables, strong EBSA history, missed almost all year 5 due to anxiety, she did not engage with learning. This year complete turn around forged friendships, great teacher super high attendance. likely to be either the top student in her class for sats or in the cohort that excel. senco believes she would have passed the kent test this year if taken now. I did not apply for extra time for the kent test (was not sure, and did not want to approach her school as she was out of school at that time) the score that lowered her was maths which she is has now caught up with and is excelling, since re-engaging with learning. I believe her score does not reflect her academic ability (senco agrees) can I appeal? is there scope for an appeal on medical/mental health grounds? (SEMH significant) previous CAMHS involvement. she is heartbroken she is not going there due to not passing. LA have named sen provision in mainstream she does not want that, she wants to be in an academic environment her current school are willing to back me but do I have a case or am I clutching at straws and what should I do please? I read I can only appeal a school place if she passed but think (not sure) it may be different if you have an EHCP? I don't know my options or if I have none or some? appreciate any advice please, thank you.
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Should I file for discrimination and victimisation? Given how the school is now trying to remove my child after i made a complaint.
School failed to follow complaint procedure and concluded my complaint without sending me an outcome letter. I have requested the complaint be reviewed at stage 2 which they are obstructing. I have sent the stage 2 escalation to the school admin team to foward to the Clerk to the governing body as the Clerk contact details are not publicly available, but the admin have refused to forward my stage 2 request. Should I escalate to DFE since the chair of governor has been inbolved and concluded my complaint without sending me an outcome of the investigation and denying me access to stage 2 process
Should i file for discrimination and victimisation?
Suddenly, they called an ehcp review last week and said they cant meet my childd needs on the basis pf limited progress and lack of engagement. They said my child requires a provision for children with severe learning needs. I disagreed because my daughter does not have severe learning needs. She has made some progress at her own pace. Limited progress is not a valid reason to say a school cannot meet needs. The techer said my daughter does not respond to her name. I disagreed because my daughter responds to her name all the time
The teacher then tried to argue that my daughter doesnt transfer her abilities/skill across a range of different setting even though she is able to perform the task. As an autistic child. I feel that she learns differently and as long as she is able to perform a specific task in one setting, that should count as an achievement . She needs to build confidence to be able to transfer that skill to another setting
During one meeting i had with the head teacher last year when i raised concerns a obout recurring injuries, she mentioned that staff find me difficult and they are worried that i might accuse them of harming my child despite i have never accussed anyone.
My concerns were regarding lack of supervision due to the frequency of injuries and school not being able to tell me how the child sustained the injuries.
During the same meeting with the head teacher last year, she suggested that i remove my child from the school i told her it was my childs first year in school and she should give her a chance and all i was asking was enhanced supervision.Zena Brown
02 May 2026
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Can a school refuse a child with an ehcp who previously attended the achool
School are refusing to admit due to relationships with peers
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Is it worth pursuing a refusal to assess for my autistic son's EHCP application
Obvious reasons why it might not be granted is that he is achieving well academically in school, good attendance and no behavioural concerns. However, he has to wear a significantly adapted uniform which takes a significant emotional toil on him to wear. He would be a school refuser were there to be a small shift in circumstances for example my husband works in the school and this may not always be the case, certainly not in secondary school and his current school have indicated that they may change the policy on his adapted uniform. We are considering getting an educational pscyhologist report (privately funded) now, would this be valuable and worth the investment for this process or to support ongoing adjustments during his remaining educational years. He is in a private school currently so we have also thought about requesting an EHCP (no funding) route. There is no local authority involvement in his care currently but he is likely to move into the state sector in secondary school. He is in year 5.
Sarah Crosby
31 Mar 2026
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Can the LA refuse to consult an Independent mainstream
My LA is refusing to consult a mainstream secondary independent unless I agree to pay the school fees, and they will pay any top up from the EHCP (very little support needed at the moment) my child is mainly SEMH does not want sen in a mainstream but wants to go to a small class size mainstream (independent) LA is refusing, I will appeal but is it lawful to refuse to consult the school? they seem to be using a loop hole by re stating they are not refusing to consult, they will consult if I agree to pay the fees is this lawful?
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Can my son take Functional Skills for Maths and English instead of GCSEs?
This is at a mainstream school with ARP (which covers Maths and English). He has an EHCP and school think he will struggle even with the Functional Skills, but they say as a mainstream school they cannot let him only do the FS, he has to do the GCSEs in both subjects as well.